The simple act of using the correct pronoun carries profound implications. It matters if we value respect and human dignity.
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Over 100 Queer Activists and Feminists Unite, Embracing Ubuntu Philosophy and Resilience
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Since its inception in October 1988, National Coming Out Day (NCOD) has marked the celebration of people who publicly identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender. It takes courage and strength to live authentically as a queer person in Nigeria. This is why, today, October 11, we continue to cheer the bravery of queer people
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In a move that has sparked widespread concern, the Nigerian Senate has recently initiated steps to repeal the Violence Against Persons (Prohibition) Act (VAPP), a landmark legislation that has been instrumental in addressing gender-based violence and other forms of abuse in Nigeria. This development is not only disturbing but also raises serious questions about the
The question of what constitutes a “proper” family is tired and outdated. Gone are the days of a singular definition that excludes the beautiful tapestry of modern family structures. Today, we celebrate the evolution of family, recognizing that love, support, and shared experiences are the cornerstones, not blood ties. Traditionally, families were viewed as biological
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Dearest Queerbie, This is our month, a vibrant celebration of who we are! But Pride isn’t just about rainbows and parades; it’s a powerful reminder of the battles fought and the victories won. It’s about acknowledging your incredible strength and unwavering spirit. You, dear reader, are the heart of Pride. Your determination, resilience, and unwavering
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Lesbianism has been in existence since the beginning of time. The purpose of this writing, is to shine a light on the people who have walked this path before us. Who paved the way by activism, or by just existing authentically and showcasing their queerness. First on the list, Anne Lister and Ann Walker. Anne
Proud to be: Honouring Lesbian Stories of Love, Activism, and Legacy. Read More »
Why are heteronormative issues working their way into LGBTQGNC relationships? Feminism teaches us to kick against patriarchal beliefs and conventions with all our might, and yet ever so often, you may find that you are experiencing or enabling what you fight against. How? Let me break it down. Patriarchy, with its deep-rooted norms and expectations,
The smell of the mango tree wafted through our house whenever the rain fell. Ours was a smallhome, two bedrooms with a singular toilet and bathroom. Papa was a strong hunter and mymother loved farming. On days when the sun shone too bright and too hot, i and my brothernnaemeka would run off to play
When I returned to Ibadan, my compound was covered with dry leaves, and my house was filled with dust. Tamuno had packed every bag that belonged to her and had kept my keys under the doormat. I met Tamuno at a Jazz bar in Lagos. She was dressed in a red bandage dress and sat
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