The question of what constitutes a “proper” family is tired and outdated. Gone are the days of a singular definition that excludes the beautiful tapestry of modern family structures. Today, we celebrate the evolution of family, recognizing that love, support, and shared experiences are the cornerstones, not blood ties.
Traditionally, families were viewed as biological units: a married couple with 2.5 children. This narrow definition however, fails to capture the rich reality of human connection. Single-parent households, adopted families, blended families – these are all families, emanating love and offering a strong foundation for their members.
The LGBTQGNC community further expands our understanding of family. Same-sex couples raising children, chosen families formed through deep friendships, and families with transgender parents are all valid and deserving of recognition. Love knows no bounds, and neither should our definition of family.
So, what is family? Here’s the beauty – there’s no single answer. Family is who you choose to surround yourself with, the people you turn to in times of need and celebrate with in times of joy. It’s the unwavering support system you build, often through shared experiences, struggles, and laughter.
This broader definition allows us to embrace the richness of human connection. A chosen family can offer a safe haven for those ostracised by their biological families. A single parent can create a loving and nurturing environment for their children. Adopted families can provide a home filled with endless possibilities.
Recognizing these diverse family structures is more than semantics; it’s about dismantling discrimination and ensuring everyone feels a sense of belonging. It’s about ensuring policies and institutions, from schools to healthcare, acknowledge and support all families.
This evolution of family is about celebrating love in all its forms. It’s about creating a world where children raised by same-sex couples see their families reflected in storybooks and classrooms. It’s about ensuring single parents have access to the resources they need to thrive.
Let’s move beyond outdated notions of family and embrace the beautiful tapestry of love, support, and shared experiences that bind us together. Let’s create a world where every family, regardless of its structure, feels valued and celebrated.
Gertrude Undie for WHER Nigeria.